If there is anything I have learned in my first year as a mother, it is that organisation is paramount with little ones in toe. Kids require planning. Gone are the days of quickly packing a bag and popping in the car. Holidays in particular need foresight. No matter the age, kids require preparation when it comes to vacations. This is why packing for our Fiji holiday this month, looked a little different than previous kid-free vacations. In the past, I would have followed my advice and packed 2-3 days before in one uninterrupted timeslot. Now, I not only have more people to pack for, but my only uninterrupted timeslot is nap time. Which also doubles as my eat, clean, shower and rest timeslot. Sound similar?
In an attempt to make the whole “travelling with a toddler” process smooth and stress-free, I had to change it up.
By ‘plan with precision’ I mean, think ahead. Open the calendar, count back 10-14 days from the day you leave and mark it as your holiday plan day.
Start by thinking through a few logistical questions like these ;
Once answered, write a shopping list, flick out a few emails and hey presto - you are ahead. Daycare and hotels often need 10 to 14 days' notice, so get those done first.
Now, write a comprehensive packing list customised for your destination. You will need to consider the duration of your stay, the weather and the activities you plan to participate in. Beach and pool holidays need sunscreen, floaties, beach toys and towels. For camping trips don't forget bedding, mud boots and wet weather gear. If you are heading to the snow (you lucky thing) cater for lost gloves and wet socks - spares will come in handy.
Lastly, take a moment to consider what entertainment your kids will need between activities. You can’t spend the whole vacation at the zoo - pop in a few colouring books for cafes, trucks to zoom around an airport and books to read before bed. You don't have to pack them all, but it's worth thinking about it.
Whether you are travelling by plane, train or automobile - space is a rare commodity with kids. Now is the time to maximize your space. My first tip is to pack vertically. No surprises here, this is the Marie Kondo gold standard. Fold clothes vertically in categories. Use packing cubes for each person and throw in a washing bag.
When to pack a separate bag for your child depends on sleeping arrangements and holiday type. If the child will sleep in a separate room it makes sense to give them a bag. But if you are sharing one big hotel room or camping tent, sharing yours might be best. For families with more than one child, you have the option of a shared suitcase and individual backpacks for toys.
If your child is under two and you are travelling by plane they will not get a bag. You will need to pack their items in your bag. My preference is to give the baby a packing cube and pop it on top of your clothes.
This step should read “Plan for sickness”. Pack bandaids, painkillers, vomit bags, stingos, insect repellant, hydro lights, comfort snacks, thermometer, topical cream, anti-nausea tablets, a bandage, tissues and more. I would even go as far as packing an extra toiletry bag for medications. Throw in a few vitamins for yourself, and while you are at it check your insurance and local hospitals.
Including older children in the packing process can foster a sense of independence and excitement. Encourage kids four and older to choose games and toys to pack. Guide them through the organising process by offering a structure; ie “Choose two jumpers, three pants, swimmers and walking shoes”. Be aware that you may not like what they choose, and will want to slip in at least one matching outfit!
While organisation is essential, flexibility is equally important when travelling with children. I encourage you to remain adaptable and open-minded throughout the whole holiday planning process. Be ready to adjust plans if kids get sick or timelines slip. Make your key focus time with family, not the perfect Instagram holiday.
So there you have it, six efficient packing strategies for parents. Plan ahead, pack with thought, plan for sickness and embrace the unexpected. But most importantly have fun! Less is always more when it comes to travel, especially travel with kids.
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